Screwing Another Guy While My Husband Watches
Article by: erotimatica
About a year ago, while caressing my breasts and getting ready to slide his hand down my stomach to my pussy, my husband starting talking.
"Baby," he moaned.
"Yeah?"
"I think it would be hot to watch another man touch you like this."
My body went a bit rigid but his hand on my breast felt a little better. "Really?"
"Yeah. It makes me so hot thinking about it."
Now, I didn't really know what to think. We'd been married for over ten years and often shared fantasies to spice up our sex life. So, I assumed this is what he was doing and went with it. I turned the fantasy over in my mind and realized that it made wet. My nipples felt more intense and I suddenly wanted his hand down my pajama bottoms and under my panties. I took his hand and guided it down.
He must have taken that as a sign to continue.
"I'd love to watch you pick up some random guy at a bar, bring him back, and make out with him." His fingers lightly grazed my pussy lips and I arched my back to indicate I wanted more. The talking was really heating me up.
"And where would you be?" I asked.
"I'd be watching."
I imagined the scenario. Finding some hunk on a bar, talking, teasing, flirting, and then inviting him up to our hotel room. Feeling his hands around my waist, caressing my breasts under my dress, and then peeling my clothes off. All while my husband watched.
I felt something building deep inside me as his fingers circled my clit.
"What would you want him to do?" I moaned.
"First, I'd want to watch you take out his cock and suck it. Would you like to that?"
"Mmmm," I moaned. The thought of some random hunk's cock in my mouth sent shudders through my body. "Would you want him cum in my mouth?" I asked. I didn't usually like to swallow but the thought of it now seemed like a very good idea.
"No, I'd want him to take his cock and stick it in your pussy."
"What about a condom?"
"No condom," he said.
I didn't like the pill and insisted that we use condoms to prevent another member of the family. We had two children and that was enough.
"No condom?" I wasn't sure how I felt about that. But his caresses of my clit brushed the worries away. Suddenly, I agreed. "No condom," I agreed.
"I want to watch you spread your legs for his cock and then I want to watch him thrusting in and out of you."
"Mmmmm," I moaned, feeling something huge building in my core. I envisioned this stud on top of me, riding me hard, thrusting in and out. His cock wet with my juices, hard and engorged by my presence, ready to release. "Where would he cum?" I asked.
"Inside of you."
The thought of the stud releasing inside of me was too much. The building wave crashed, the roar drowning out all senses, taking control of my body. Electric sparks shot from my core through my body. I experienced one of the most massive orgasms of my life.
My husband slipped inside of me at that moment and his cock felt wonderful. The whole experience must have really turned him on because he orgasmed after three or four thrusts.
I must admit I enjoyed the fantasy more than I would have thought. We didn't discuss it again after our orgasms but my husband brought it up several more times while we were having sex and the effect was the same. I soon found that when he didn't bring it up, I did. I asked him once if he would really go through with it, and he said he would. It excited him to think of me with another man. He found me attractive and wanted to see how much another guy could turn me on.
I always thought this should just remain a fantasy but now I am wondering. Should I go the next step? What would it be like to have sex with another man while my husband watches. I've investigated the whole cuckold thing and I don't think my husband likes to be degraded. It's not him. I think he's more in line with the hotwife phenomena. I find it all a bit strange but damn, it turns me on.
Has anyone moved into this lifestyle? Any thoughts?
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I have the same fantasy, but my husband would never agree to it. Based on what I've read, plenty of people do it, though it's risky towards the relationship for sure. I think there are 'how to' books and prompts on the subject available, just as there are with BDSM. You basically need to sit down and seriously discuss it with your spouse, set up a kind of 'contract' that you both agree on and be as specific as possible. You need 'safe' words and that sort of thing to curb any action that either of you feel uncomfortable with. You both have to agree on the partner and you really should practice safe sex, even though the thought of him cuming inside you is so tantalizing...I have the same thought too.
I think the main danger is jealousy...having your husband watch a guy with you who may clearly have superior sexual skills. Is that likely? I don't know in your case. In mine, it would definitely be a concern. And for you, if you fall for somebody and you start breaking the rules...doing behind your husband's back. You're basically talking about swinging with a very special interest in mind.
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I'm not really worried about jealousy. He's not really that type. But then again, who knows. I hear you on protection although in an ideal world...
If this is a true picture of you, my friend, then it would be very easy to get someone to help you to fulfill this fantasy! Any man would consider it a major privilege!
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Not a true picture but not totally far off either. I would never put my real picture on the Internet.
Good idea! It is not very wise!
In my experience, fantasies and reality do not always go hand in hand. Many fantasies are better to simply stay fantasies, or else they could ruin both the reality you currently have, and the fantasy you share.
As a man, I have had a fantasy of seeing my woman take a cock from afar, to better see how her body reacts to it... I've even dreamt of seeing her take two at once. But whenever I close my eyes to picture it, the other man barely exists. I've never been able to get the picture of her with someone else through my head, regardless of the situation.
I would not like to be seen as possisive or controlling, but I, personally, could never share my woman with another man. Not for lack of trust, though that may be part of the issue, but simply because the idea does not sit right with me in any way. I'm a very private, loving type, and seek women who are the same way.
However, I understand not everyone is the same in that, and many are much more open minded when it comes to unconventional sexual relationships. My personal opinion and advice is that you and your husband should sit down and fully discuss the issue. From start to finish, top to bottom, every detail, right down to all the possible negative outcomes. Do NOT do it in the heat of the moment, when you're both burning up with passion and wet with the idea of the fantasy. Do it over dinner, or in some other casual setting when you're both fully dressed and thinking straight. If you can both go through it and are 100% sure that you're comfortable with it, then I see no reason you can't take the plunge. Just be 100% sure where the boundaries are, and maybe even try to involve him somehow, either by coaching you while you're fucking the other guy (telling him and you what he wants you guys to do to eachother) or joining in either in the middle or at the end, when the other guy is finished.
Not sure if I helped, but as I'm sure you know, the key to a relationship of any kind is communication. The whole world, including those of your sexual fantasies, can open up to you both of you're careful.to communicate your needs, wants, and feelings.
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Thanks for the thoughtful advice. It will probably stay a fantasy. But who knows if the right moment strikes. But I think you are right. Communication and discussion are the keys.
There's nothing wrong with fantasies. They keep us warm and bring us pleasue when we're alone at night, and they bring greater levels of arousal when shared with an open minded partner. Many times the reality won't live up to the fantasy; it may even ruin the fantasy.
But it's a thing of comfort and discussion. Perhaps you should let your imagination run wild and turn it into an erotic story here on the site for others to enjoy? I'd certainly be interested
I have fulfilled this before. You have to make sure your both 110% comfortable. Both completely open about boundaries and you take control, not the random guy.
Once you do that it's a lot of fun, and the sex with your partner after os amazing. Sex with my man after was the hardest orgasm I have had.
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Thanks for your comment and advice.
Definitely move on. Why are you asking us for? This is between you and him.
Dont Do IT..It is a "low percentage" Act that could miserably "misfire'.I mean the guy would have to be a stranger for maximum affect and he may be impotent or not turned on or even a health risk.
Try dressing hubby in clothes that turn you on and same for him.I personally find a lot of the clothes my wife wears nowadays to be NOT Sexy even though she has a wardrobe of sexy clothes from years gone by that she could still fit into because she exercises a lot and is pretty much the same as when we married decades ago.I bet he would just love to dress you differently too. Wearing the same pair of Pyjamas to bed each night is a guaranteed turnoff for anyone except people who are kidding themselves about these things
Maybe you two could see a relationship counsellor for independent advice on how best to go about this.I think a counsellor may say that making love is different to having sex and preparing properly for great sex is a MUST.
I could never really share. It would complicate things emotionally. It's kind of like when we fantasize about having sex in public places...does it turn us on? Heck yes! Would we do it? Not unless being in handcuffs FOR REAL and going to actual jail turns you on. I've often had fantasies that would never work out in real life. Some people have fantasies about having, say, sex with an alien. But if that situation were to come about, intercourse would be the last thing on their mind!
As you can see by the varied responses, most people, even here, warn against it and for multiple reasons. They are right for doing so. It takes a very special relationship to withstand that type of contact. I am an open and inquistive person, with a lot of past sexual experience, and I worry that I could have a problem with it these days. At the time of encounter, you may be blinded by your own runaway desires. I have been, and have done things that could have been dangerous to myself and my partner in several ways. As a fantasy, it is great. If you have read some of my stories you will see that sharing (more than one other) sex partner is a common thread, however there are many pitfalls to negotiate. I have been in this situation several times and survived, but I can tell you that each person must be strong in their conviction and personal sexual fortitude to pull it off. Even the hint of jealousy can explode in your face, perhaps even days or weeks later. As much as we are drawn to the idea, and I still am, it may be better left as a shared fantasy. My wife and I have pillow talk about this frequently and it really get our juices flowing but I don't think we would ever try it now, being much more experienced in the strange and wonderful world of sex.
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