Female friends are great to hang-out with

Female friends are great to hang-out with

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There are countless opportunities to befriend females. Two things need to be considered namely interests and location. The local library is an invaluable source of locating groups in the area of domicile. It’s crucial to find friends who are likeminded. Being supportive, caring and generally dedicating time for female friends and perhaps a hug when they need to be treated tenderly is a sure way to cement the friendship. It’s equally important to let the female friends have their space and not be a male chauvinist. It hardly matters what the status of a person is; single, separated, divorced or married, friendship with a female can be quite an experience.

Summary

There are countless opportunities to befriend females. Two things need to be considered namely interests and location. The local library is an invaluable source of locating groups in the area of domicile. It’s crucial to find friends who are likeminded. Being supportive, caring and generally dedicating time for female friends and perhaps a hug when they need to be treated tenderly is a sure way to cement the friendship. It’s equally important to let the female friends have their space and not be a male chauvinist. It hardly matters what the status of a person is; single, separated, divorced or married, friendship with a female can be quite an experience.

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Submitted: February 26, 2015

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Two human beings transcend virtual and supposed barriers related to gender and background to establish friendship. The relationship can be platonic as seen in the case of male friends. Since platonic relationships are asexual they need pampering to ensure that those who are involved are indeed comfortable being in such a circumstance.

Having a girlfriend does not necessarily mean that she should be dumped. It’s imperative to be honest and caring to cement the relationship. Finding female friends at the workplace or having a boyfriend does not suffice and therefore the need for female friends or perhaps even after marriage or about to be married there is a growing desire to expand the network of female friends or maybe a child is on the way or even after having children the desire for female friends is not on the wane or a newly divorced person might want to mingle with the opposite sex.

Notwithstanding the circumstances friendship with women is desirable. There is no denying of the fact that inviting a female friend over for coffee and engaging in conversation with her is quality time spent. Chatting on the phone or a video call perhaps to share daily events in each other’s lives at work and beyond is what friendship is all about.

Quite similar to other aspects of life, close friends are separated as well over time due to events occurring in their lives. The litmus test of true friendships is to be able to go through thick and thin of life and yet remain friends forever. Marriage, children, separation after marriage, divorce or even bereavement are all a part of life and these events will occur however unpleasant.

In all of these scenarios seeking companionship with women is natural. It would actually enhance self-confidence after a particularly trying time. As adults it may not be a cakewalk anymore as it used to be when in school or college.

At the beginning of one’s career or when getting back to work after being on sabbatical and attending to personal commitments one may  be eagerly awaiting to grab the opportunity of renewing friendships with colleagues. However, as they say, it’s easier said than done. Approaching a female colleague at work with the expectation that in the near future there might be an opportunity to expand one’s social horizon is a dicey proposition.

One more thing to be mindful of while trying to socialize with female colleagues is confidentiality. Therefore it would be prudent to pick a topic or subject matter of discussion which would lighten up the mood. This approach is tried and tested and has a fair chance of winning friends which is the intention. Information should be dispensed on a need-to-know basis so as to avoid being unpleasantly surprised.

Marriage might be a life changing experience in the sense that prior to marriage it may have been easy to hang-out with other single friends. After marriage it may not be as easy to hang-out with single friends simply because free time has to be devoted to family. The circle of friends would gradually become smaller. Moreover after marriage what a person may like and dislike may change as well. Hence the friends who were at one time great to hang-out with may be boring.

 A married person would much rather mingle with similar couples and relish a dinner gathering or theatre for example.  A major event in any woman’s life is child birth. Being in a group of expecting mothers would be encouraging as there would be a common topic of discussion which is vital. Moreover since the group would consist of expecting mothers only the conversations would entail adult talk without the spouse. To be able to converse with other expecting mothers would prove to be encouraging and very rewarding indeed. Initially in particular it may be very lonely for an expecting mother until she attends a maternity class.


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