Hit me kick me BUT Don,t "[shit)" me

We are all constantly " pissed off" by our peers.Our choices are more about " WE" not "I".This includes matters of the heart.We all get analysed and talked about behind our backs,so to speak.It often " shapes" who we end up in a relationship with.I think so anyway.

So the common outlet for our negative thoughts has to be authenticated by an unknown superstar or a small " in crowd" somewhere but not obvious to the average suburban "bear" lol!!

Hushpuppy moccasins made a huge worldwide comeback in the 90s because a small group of trendsetters in new York started to wear them again.Right group right time

So it follows on from this that we live in a mega large social spiders Web without being aware of it.Any social movement at all is telegraphed for all. In the social group to " get their teeth into."

Even falling in love and "pairing off" is a product of the social group we belong to

YES! Our friends as a group both consciously and otherwise "prime" us for whoever it is that we  meet and date

Not too many of us meet our soul mate.It is more a matter of being with a lover and " working it".Initially a " fit" for the social group as a whole.

Perhaps in a parallel universe we would.