A FILM KNOWN AS
"BLUE FILM" is the word. Yes, the first time I heard this word
only one thing came to my mind that there is a new movie on the
bollywood block called blue or may be the film has only blue
colours. I was 13 when I heard this word from my friend's mouth.
he was 13 too but he knew what a blue film exactly is. He took me
to his home to watch the blue movie. I went to his home thinking
that It must be a bollywood or a Hollywood movie. The movie
started and what I saw shocked me. A 14 year old girl having sex
with a 24 year old boy. "O god ! what the heck is
this". My friend replied with word "fun". I was not able to
understand that. He suggested me too open my pants . he wanted me
to do the same as he was doing. I was shocked at this. I
said"what are you doing"..to which he replied as masturbating.
Honestly speaking I resisted masturbating that day but was not
able to resist too long. I masturbated too. After masturbating
for four years I came to know about the negative reactions of
masturbating on my mind and health. Well, health wise I must say
I was skinny from the age of 12 years but my mind was the real
victim of masturbating. During those four years of masturbating I
did not cared about my studies at all, I just searched new blue
films on net, made friends who belonged to the same group. I
started looking girls with a different angle. For me, a girls
face did not mattered but what mattered was the body. I was sick
of it. I was able to recollect myself again at the age of 17
years because I had some respect left for me but this is not the
case with many boys and many girls too who are still indulge in
hand practice and some feels that it is necessary before going
for actual sex. Well, let me tell you one thing that this is
nothing but a false statement. You cannot gain anything through
These days you ask any boy what masturbation is and he will reply
you back with answer. Rarely will you find a boy or a girl who
do not follow this exercise. This habit develops mainly in those
kids who are introvert, shy of each other's sex. There is no one
in this world who can give me one positive point of masturbation,
is there any one? Yes, I agree that it is five minutes of fun and
you will say that it feels as if you are in heaven but can anyone
tell me what's heaven like. I don't think people masturbate in
heaven. There are only negatives as far as masturbation is
concerned. It takes your mind far away from studies. lets
consider body energy in terms of percentage so if you gain 90%
energy in one day then almost 30% energy is wasted while
masturbation. This is a fact. I cannot write many things which
are very intense as those should not be written.
I have experienced this life myself and I tell you that if you
think living life like this is fun then I am sorry my friend you
are in deep danger. There is better life without masturbation and
all that. Blue films only do good for those who makes them and
sell to us -the stupids and gain profit. Just think about that 13
year old girl- was she the real culprit when she acted in a blue
movie. Well, acting in blue movie means laying naked on bed.
There are many girls and boys too who acts in these movies
Now , this paragraph is for those who just finished the last
paragraph as I know that those who love masturbation would have
left reading this article after reading the first paragraph only
and those who carried on reading must have come to know that how
danger a hand practice can be. I will write a few things which
are very easy to follow.
1) You are not going to leave this
habit because it's a habit and its tough to leave. So, fix the
number of times you want to do masturbation in a week. Say if you
were masturbating 8 times a week then reduce it to four. This is
the first step.
2) Stay away from those who take you
to these kind of movies, if you think that they are your friends
then I must say there is no bigger stupid in this world than you.
3) On internet or television, watch
the programs that you love the most.
Like if highlights of last day cricket match is coming than watch
that instead of watching a blue film.
4)connect youself with god. This is very important as when you
will get to know about the real meaning of the term "GOD" then
you will automatically start respecting the best gift given to
you by him ,i.e, the human body.
There are many other things like thinking about your studies,
Many more things too. If you will follow these then you will see
a change in you and that change will automatically motivate you
to do better in life. Just remember
In my view, one thing do not think that you cannot come out of it
just think you want to come out of it, it will take time but you
will surely come out of it one day.
Masturbation for a kid is like a terrorist or may be more than a
terrorist and I tell you one thing that if you are masturbating
than you are living a 26/11 or each day9/11.