WHAT SHOULD MAN AND WOMAN DO WHEN CHASED BY VULGARITIES ?
Recently one of my best female friends was asked by guy on a prominent social networking sites how many times she has sex in a day and the ways adopted to fulfill her desires? The question was bound to lead to furious set of action and reaction within her.She reacted sharply by deleting the guy from the friend's list but not without spending few moments mired in depression. What happened with her is no longer a rare occurrence in our times.I have for long seen people tormented by volley of such absurd and cheap questions. I know one prominent social site wherein one's profile is constantly chased by disturbing elements who post pornographic scraps using fake profiles.It's high time we learn to counteract such developments with a smile instead of sizzling with anger.
The best way to handle such awkward situations/questions is to realize that all such questions are by product of incompleteness prevailing in one's being.
No need to harass ourselves for the flaws that exist in someone else. No need to state that we are living in liberal times when sex oriented perceptions have flooded our lives.So it's not just possible that we live in total isolation -a life devoid of such currents !! We are bound to face them.So instead of being in defensive mode take a bit more aggressive stance.That is best explained by this view I read on net sometimes back. It said that our well being depends on fact that how well we come to absorb all negative things.Merely reacting in a hypersensitive manner is not going to yield anything other than ensuring an appointment with a psychologist.
People asking such questions have not been able to find better means of satiating their carnal desires. They need healthy outlets. It's quite clear that unless we have not dealt with lower desires in a bold and rational manner ,the desire to be on higher plane of thoughts will never bear desired results.
Sex is a wonderful feeling but these guys and gals just lack the proper channels to imbibe such feelings in a right way.That's why we find them bumping into wrong people like my friend.Just avoid them.If you show sign of suffering,you are bound to be subjected to newer sadistic modes.In other words hit them where it hurts most either via words or physical gestures.But whatever you do just don't lose contact with smile.Smile always as 'no worries, the sun will rise again'.